Complete the questions below in the body of an email addressed to [email protected]
Don't know how to copy and paste? Here's how:

On a PC (Windows)

1. Highlight the questionnaire text below (Click and drag your mouse over all the questions)
2. Right-click and select Copy (or press Ctrl + C)
3. Open a new email to me at [email protected]
4. Click inside the email body and Paste (Right-click → Paste or press Ctrl + V)
5. Type your answers directly after each question
6. Hit Send when you're ready

On a Mac (Apple)

1. Highlight the questionnaire text below (Click and drag your mouse over all the questions)
2. Right-click and select Copy (or press Command ⌘ + C)
3. Open a new email to me at [email protected]
4. Click inside the email body and Paste (Right-click → Paste or press Command ⌘ + V)
5. Type your answers directly after each question
6. Hit Send when you're ready

If this seems confusing, I also offer a guided session by phone or Zoom. Choose Option 2 on the Legacy Letters tab above. If you've already paid, you can add the Zoom/phone call option by clicking HERE.

ABOUT YOU

• Your name:
• Email:
• Who is this letter for? (name + relationship)

THE MOMENT

• What made you decide to write this letter now?
• Is this letter meant to be:
  • ☐ Given soon
  • ☐ For the future
  • ☐ “Just in case / someday”

YOUR RELATIONSHIP

• How would you describe your relationship with this person?
• What are 2–3 words that describe them?

WHAT THEY MEAN TO YOU

• What do you love most about them?
• What do you appreciate about them that you may not say often enough?
• What are you most proud of about them?

MEMORIES

• What are 1–3 memories that come to mind right away?
• Is there a moment that really captures who they are?

WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO KNOW

• What is something you’ve always wanted to say, but haven’t?
• If they remember one thing from this letter, what would you want it to be?

HOPES & WISDOM

• What do you hope for their life going forward?
• Is there any advice, encouragement, or life lesson you’d want to share?

YOUR VOICE

• Are there things you often say to them?
• Any phrases, sayings, or inside jokes you’d like included?

OPTIONAL (BUT POWERFUL)

• Are there things you wish you had said sooner?
• Is there anything you want to apologize for, acknowledge, or make peace with?

TONE & STYLE

• What tone would you prefer?
  • ☐ Warm and conversational
  • ☐ More formal
  • ☐ Light touches of humor
  • ☐ Deeply reflective
• Length preference:
  • ☐ Short (1–2 pages)
  • ☐ Medium (2–3 pages)
  • ☐ Longer

FINAL DETAILS

• When would you like this completed?
• Anything else you’d like included?