Wishing others well is a positive habit we all can benefit from. . . . When we get caught up in the stresses of life, our thoughts and actions tend to go in the opposite direction. We become self-centered and start thinking about how things will affect us or what we can gain by acting a certain way. People often resort to focusing on themselves, not necessarily because they’re egotistical but because it’s an easy place to hide when things are hard. When you’re stressed, fearful, or anxious, it’s much easier to retreat into yourself than reach out to help someone else or take action that might be scary. But those things are exactly what will make you feel better in the long run. Wishing others well has so many benefits that doing so often is an act of self-love...
It’s a reminder that what we focus on grows
What we focus on grows. That’s just science. So when we start wishing more good things for our friends and family, we’re planting the seeds for their own good fortune. This can be a great way to retrain your brain if you have a tendency to get caught up in negative thoughts that can drag you down. This shift in thinking can also help you manage your anxiety or stress levels. Not only does it lower your stress levels to help you feel calmer, but it’s also a coping mechanism for making better decisions when you’re in a stressful situation.
It improves your relationships
When we’re wishing others well and expressing gratitude, it shows that we are actively thinking about others. It’s an act of generosity that can go a long way. When we choose to show compassion and kindness towards others, it not only improves their lives, but it can also improve your relationships. It’s a wonderful way to make new connections and show people that you are there to help them and support them. It also gives you a chance to practice communication skills, which can go a long way in any relationship.
It can make you feel less alone
Everyone is going through something, even if they appear to be happy and content on the outside. Instead of feeling like you’re alone in your struggles, you can reach out and connect with others who may be experiencing the same thing. Even if you aren’t struggling, you may know someone who is and can lend a compassionate ear. You don’t have to be a professional to help someone out when they need it. It’s one of the easiest things to do, but it can make a big difference in someone’s life. Wishing others well may also help you feel less alone if you’re experiencing feelings of depression or anxiety.
It encourages others to reciprocate
When we go out of our way to wish others well and do nice things for others, they often return the favor. You may be thinking, But I don’t want them to do anything in return! However, the act of doing something nice for someone else and expecting nothing in return is a wonderful way to build community and foster kindness. We live in a society where people are rewarded for reaching out and helping others, and while that may seem annoying, it’s actually wonderful.
It can ease feelings of isolation
When we feel alone, it can be easy to retreat into ourselves. We may not reach out to ask for help, which can make it even harder to get through the situation we’re facing. You may not even realize that you are feeling isolated unless someone else points it out to you. Wishing others well can be a great way to notice if you may be feeling isolated and reach out to others who can support you through the situation. If you know someone who may be feeling isolated, wishing them well and reaching out to them can make a huge difference in their lives.
Wishing others well is an easy way to make a positive impact on the people around you. It can also be a great way to practice self-love by focusing on your own wellbeing and helping others. It doesn’t matter if you try to do something big or small every day, just that you are actively trying to make a change in the world and help other people. You don’t have to be powerful or rich or even famous to make a difference. You just have to be willing to try.
Steve Schafer is the founder of TheEulogyWriters and is probably the most prolific eulogy writer (and, no doubt, the best) anywhere. He lives in Michigan and has been writing eulogies for well over thirty years. The articles in this blog are designed to help people through the process of losing loved ones.
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